Life By Design Tips Start each day with gratitude. Gratitude is medicine that heals the soul. Make Life Happen: The life you desire will not just happen. You must make it happen. Stay Focused: Focus on your goals! Eliminate the distractions. Love you first. Once you see the beauty in you, you will see beauty all around. DO something different. Old ways won't open new doors. Plan to succeed. A goal without a plan is just a wish. Love and accept yourself